After a while you learn
The subtle difference between holding a hand
and chaining a soul
And you learn
That love doesn't mean leaning
And company doesn't always mean security
And you begin to learn
That kisses aren't contracts
And presents aren't promises
And you begin to accept your defeats
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child
And you learn
To build all your roads on today
'Cause tomorrow's ground's too uncertain for plans
And futures have a way of falling down
In mid-flight
After a while you learn
That even sunshine burns, if you get too much of it
So you plant your own garden
And decorate your own soul
Instead of waiting for someone
To bring you flowers,
And you learn that you really can endure
You really are strong
You really do have worth
And you learn
And you learn
With every goodbye, you learn.
*a meaningful poem taken from a website.. but i don't remember the URL..sorry*