most often our subconscious mind does not know the difference between what's real and what's imagined.. take for example, myself. i tend to get jealous when my bf makes new frens with someone of the opposite gender.. i would bombard my brain with all the negative and judgemental thoughts of what could or would happened.. i would let my mind drift into this paranoid world which i had created out of my own insecurities.. sounds stupid rite? yup, i confess, this is something that i really need to work on.
one of my erroneous beliefs is that if i could make him behave the way i thought he ought to, then i would be happy. well, i know now, such beliefs is futile. it's never gonna happen. the world will never function the way i want it to.
i realized that my happiness does not depend on anything that the world places before me.. rather, it depends on how i interpret them. i guess the best thing to do would be to release all the negative thoughts and replace them with positive ones..
we are responsible for the creation of our own happiness or unhappiness. question is, which one would we choose? Hmmm..
Everything will be alright, yeah
The heart is stronger than you think
Like it can go through anything
And even when you think it can't it finds a way to still push on, though
Sometime you want to run away
Ain't got the patience for the pain
And if you don't believe it look into your heart, the beat goes on
I'm telling you
Things get better through whatever
If you fall, dust it off, don't let up
Don't you know you can go, be your own miracle, you need to know
If the mind keeps thinking you've had enough
But the heart keeps telling you don't give up
Who are we to be questioning, wondering what is what, don't give up
Through it all, just stand up
It's like we all have better days
Problems getting all up in your face
Just because you go through it
Don't mean it gotta take control, no
You ain't gotta find no hiding place
Because the heart can beat the hate
Don't wanna let your mind keep playing you
And saying you can't go on
I'm telling you,
Things get better through whatever
If you fall, dust if off, don't let up
Don't you know you can go, be your own miracle, you need to know
If the mind keeps thinking you've had enough
But the heart keeps telling you don't give up
Who are we to be questioning, wondering what is what, don't give up
Through it all, just stand up
Through it all, just stand up
You don't gotta be a prisoner in your mind
If you fall, dust it off, you can live your life
Let your heart be your guide, oh
You will know that you're good if you trust the in good
Everything will be alright, yeah
Light up the dark, if you follow your heart
And It will get better through whatever
If the mind keeps thinking you've had enough
But the heart keeps telling you don't give up
Who are we to be questioning, wondering what is what, don't give up
Through it all, just stand up
You got it in you, find it within
You got in ya, find it within ya
You got in you, find it within
You got in you, find it within ya
You got in you, find it within
You got in you, find it within ya
Find it within you, find it within
Through it all, just stand up
~ will i dream of you tonite? ~